"Men's Health Matters: Let's Talk About It"

By Dale Jodoin In November, you might have noticed that men grow mustaches to show support for cancer awareness. This used to be a time for men to discuss what it means to survive cancer, have cancer, or face the harsh reality of being told there's no way to recover from it. However, it seems like men's health is sometimes forgotten amidst other important causes. Let's be clear; this isn't about ignoring other important health issues, including those affecting women. It's about emphasizing the importance of men's health, especially considering the world we live in today. It's tough out there—finding jobs, paying for expensive apartments, dealing with high mortgages, and often earning less than we deserve. But it's high time for men to take a moment to think about their own well-being. There are numerous organizations out there dedicated to men's health, including ones for men over 55. These places are willing to discuss what needs to be done and offer support. Unfortunately, due to the COVID-19 pandemic, cancer testing and surgeries have been delayed, making it even more critical to prioritize men's health. It's crucial to address another issue—the fear of finding out. Some men avoid seeking help because they're worried they won't be strong enough to face the truth. But being strong doesn't mean you can't ask for help or take a break when you're tired. It's okay to lean on others when you need it. So, let's encourage men to come together and talk about their problems. You don't have to follow a specific script or method; just have a beer, sit around a table, or play pool. The important thing is to start the conversation. It's my opinion, but I believe it's a valid one. Let's look at some statistics: men's suicide rates are alarming, and so is the cancer rate. We need to change this narrative. By talking openly about men's health, we can break down the stigma surrounding it and encourage more men to seek help when needed. In conclusion, men's health matters, and November should continue to be a time for us to reflect on it. We can make a difference by raising awareness, supporting one another, and prioritizing our well-being. It's not about ignoring other important issues; it's about ensuring that men's health isn't left behind. Let's take care of ourselves and each other because strong men are those who aren't afraid to ask for help when they need it. When a woman is seen being pushed around and hit by a man, people are more lik being ridiculed or not believed can be a significant barrier to seeking help, leading many men to suffer in silence. Addressing this stigma is crucial in creating a society where all victims of domestic violence and sexual assault, regardless of gender, feel safe and supported in seeking help. It involves changing the narrative and challenging the stereotypes that contribute to the underreporting and underrecognition of abuse against men. By acknowledging that men can be victims too and fostering an environment where their experiences are taken seriously, we can take significant steps towards providing better support and resources for all victims of domestic violence and sexual assault.